Ashlar House
Holistic Independent Consultation for Individuals, Families, and Organisations
Consultation | Coaching | Presentations
Kristen is a seasoned child development specialist and family systems consultant with a focus on philanthropy aimed at supporting children and families.
A trusted resource for individuals and organizations, she provides holistic consultation that balances deep clinical empathy with a steadfast commitment to institutional stability and compliance.
As an educator, educational psychologist, and child development specialist with three decades of system experience, Kristen brings invaluable "sea legs" to these dynamic environments. She has served more than 1,000 families, completed over 2,000 psychoeducational evaluations, and has demonstrated 4,000 hours of collaboration with attorneys in matters related to child welfare and educational rights. Her work reflects a commitment to education, wellness, and opportunity.
This extensive background gives her a unique micro-to-macro perspective: she possesses the interviewing skills needed to navigate sensitive human dynamics, alongside a deep reverence for the legal and structural frameworks that keep large organizations secure, unified, and operational.
Kristen operates on the belief that when organizational systems are strong, equitable, and properly maintained, society thrives. To support this, her professional focus is on preventative conflict resolution, resolving various challenges early, while contributing her expertise to systems that promote access, clarity, and sustainable growth.
Ultimately, Kristen believes education is the best short and long-term investment we can make, fundamentally changing the trajectory for individuals, families, and the organizations they build.
Her approach is grounded in a clear and straightforward philosophy: treat people with genuine decency, resolve friction before it compromises the enterprise, and build durable individual and organizational systems where everyone can feel confident, understood, and grow. By protecting the integrity of the structures, both human and organisational, the rest takes care of itself
Case Outcomes & Family Appraisals
In situations where my child previously reacted emotionally, he now stops, reflects, and explains the reasoning behind his decisions.
Kristen’s ability to bring out the best in people is unparalleled. Her leadership training is not just about improving skills, it’s about building and transforming mindsets.
Through Kristen’s mentorship, I’ve gained the confidence and the tools I needed to thrive in both my personal and professional life. Her training has had an immeasurable impact on my career.
Her reputation as an influencer and coach is underscored.
My son is more motivated, more engaged, and no longer isolates himself in his room.
My daughter is now the one who proposes solutions rather than being defensive.
Both of my children became more successful academically, more mature emotionally, and showed noticeably better judgment.
I did not understand that confidence is built through preparation and authenticity and not about projecting perfection. It’s about being prepared and authentic, knowing your strengths and owning your weaknesses. I am very thankful to Kristen.
My daughter now explains her reasoning instead of blaming everyone else. Family life feels calmer and more connected.
Arguments that previously escalated into shouting now resolve through very logical discussions.
My child now thinks more carefully before reacting or making decisions.
Participants learn to respond more thoughtfully and intentionally in everyday situations.
This program helped my son think more clearly, regulate his emotions more effectively, and make better decisions during stressful situations.
It has strengthened my daughter in ways we can clearly see in everyday life.
My son shows far better judgment, especially in difficult situations. We are incredibly grateful.
Our disagreements no longer escalate into chaos and emotional overwhelm.
The emotional meltdowns and constant escalation no longer control our home.
After years of struggle and working with multiple professionals, we finally began seeing meaningful change in our daughter and in our family dynamic. She became calmer, more communicative, and more connected to our family.
In situations where my child previously reacted emotionally, he now stops, reflects, and explains the reasoning behind his decisions.
Kristen’s ability to bring out the best in people is unparalleled. Her leadership training is not just about improving skills, it’s about building and transforming mindsets.
Through Kristen’s mentorship, I’ve gained the confidence and the tools I needed to thrive in both my personal and professional life. Her training has had an immeasurable impact on my career.
Her reputation as an influencer and coach is underscored.
My son is more motivated, more engaged, and no longer isolates himself in his room.
My daughter is now the one who proposes solutions rather than being defensive.
Both of my children became more successful academically, more mature emotionally, and showed noticeably better judgment.
I did not understand that confidence is built through preparation and authenticity and not about projecting perfection. It’s about being prepared and authentic, knowing your strengths and owning your weaknesses. I am very thankful to Kristen.
My daughter now explains her reasoning instead of blaming everyone else. Family life feels calmer and more connected.
Arguments that previously escalated into shouting now resolve through very logical discussions.
My child now thinks more carefully before reacting or making decisions.
Participants learn to respond more thoughtfully and intentionally in everyday situations.
This program helped my son think more clearly, regulate his emotions more effectively, and make better decisions during stressful situations.
It has strengthened my daughter in ways we can clearly see in everyday life.
My son shows far better judgment, especially in difficult situations. We are incredibly grateful.
Our disagreements no longer escalate into chaos and emotional overwhelm.
The emotional meltdowns and constant escalation no longer control our home.
After years of struggle and working with multiple professionals, we finally began seeing meaningful change in our daughter and in our family dynamic. She became calmer, more communicative, and more connected to our family.