Ashlar House

In situations where my child previously reacted emotionally, he now stops, reflects, and explains the reasoning behind his decisions.

Kristen’s ability to bring out the best in people is unparalleled. Her leadership training is not just about improving skills, it’s about building and transforming mindsets.

I’ve gained the confidence I needed to thrive. An immeasurable impact on my parenting and career.

Her reputation as an influencer and coach is underscored.

My son is more motivated and engaged. He no longer isolates himself in his room.

My daughter now proposes the solutions but she used to be defensive - all the time.

Both of my children became more successful and more emotionally mature.

My daughter has stopped blaming everyone else. Family life feels calmer and more connected.

Arguments that previously escalated into shouting are resolve with logical discussions.

My child thinks more carefully before making decisions.

Participants learn to respond more thoughtfully to everyday situations.

Kristen has a rare ability to take dense psychoeducational data and make it usable for the people who actually need it

This program helped my son think more clearly, regulate his emotions, and make better decisions.

Kristen brings a rare combination to high-conflict cases: she's warm enough that both parties trust her in the room, but disciplined enough that neither side can pull her off course.

It has strengthened my daughter's skills in every way.

What I remember most isn't the report - it's that I felt like she actually listened. Even when the process was hard, I trusted that she was being fair to everyone involved, not just telling us what we wanted to hear. That mattered more than I expected it to.

My son shows far better judgment. We are incredibly grateful.

When I've run out of options on a case, Kristen finds one I hadn't considered, usually by going back to what the child actually needs instead of what either parent wants. I've referred her several cases for exactly this reason, and it's worked every time.

We were stuck for months, and every option just turned into another fight. Kristen asked about our kid, not about us. What she came back with wasn't a compromise; it was just right. We both knew it the moment we heard it.

Our disagreements no longer escalate into chaos and overwhelm.

Kristen treats deadlock as information, not failure. When parties are stuck, it's usually because every option is built around their positions, not the child's needs. She re-anchors the conversation there, and that's often what breaks the impasse.

Dr. Nolfi's evaluations are some of the more decision-ready reports I've reviewed. They are well-organized, evidence-based, and free of unnecessary clinical jargon.

Her course evaluations consistently reflected that students felt better prepared for fieldwork after her classes.

The emotional meltdowns and constant escalation no longer control our home.

Dr. Nolfi is clearly experienced in translating complex behavioral and developmental information. Her recommendations are grounded, and she's very mindful of the impact her findings have on the families involved.

After years of struggle and working with multiple professionals, we finally began seeing change in our daughter.  She's calmer, more thoughtful, and happier.